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Tim Oudenhoven
Third Year Theologian
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Mundelein Seminary
1000 East Maple Avenue, Mundelein, IL 60060
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Here is a little
about myself and my vocation story. Just as a disclaimer this is
not the most interesting story and I would warn against operating
heavy machinery as it may cause drowsiness while reading.
Once upon a time, I was born in La Crosse, WI where I lived for the
first two years of my life. My family then moved to DePere and
Peshtigo before moving to Stevens Point about 10 years ago. I come
from a family of five and am the eldest having a younger brother and
sister. My family has always been religious and involved in parish
life. I can remember being excited in fourth grade when I became
old enough to start serving at Mass. It was about two years later
that I started to think about the possibility of being a priest.
Being in a small Catholic Grade School, I was encouraged to discern
my vocation through several strong role models including my Mom’s
brother who is a priest and her sister who is a nun.
Shortly thereafter, I was diagnosed with Fibromyalgia, a chronic
muscular disease. I had to cut back on some of my activities and by
ninth grade stopped actively discerning towards the priesthood
because I could barely complete the tasks I had to do for the day.
During my senior year of high school, I started feeling better where
I could start to take a normal class load. It was also at this time
that Fr. Trempe, the pastor at St. Bronislava in Plover (my home
parish) started to ask me the question if I felt called to the
Priesthood. After a while I had to say yes, and started to move
towards the point that I am at now. I attended several retreats
and became active in my faith helping with our parish website.
After high school, I decided to enroll at UW Stevens Point as a
Physics major since I loved science. I then switched into Computer
Information Systems and began working part-time as a student
employee in their computer department fixing computers and creating
web-based database systems.
In April 2004, I was accepted as a seminarian with the Diocese of La
Crosse. I was kind of a “strange” seminarian because I had not yet
graduated from UW-SP and would not be ready to enter seminary until
Fall of 2005. This gave me the opportunity to work at the Diocesan
Center, putting my computer skills to good use. I lived at Mary
Mother of the Church Parish (my parent’s parish from 20+ yrs
earlier) in La Crosse. I also spent a lot of time with other
seminarians that were in town.
That summer was an awesome experience. I enjoyed meeting all of
the Curia staff and learning about the different things the Curia
does. I also had the pleasure of attending a few retreats and even
had the opportunity to speak to the young men who came to the
Threshold Retreat. I was fortunate to spend a lot of time at our
Shrine to our Lady of Guadalupe. I must admit that I was skeptical
of it at first, but after my first visit I understood why it was
built and the need for it.
The following Fall, I returned to Stevens Point for my last semester
of college. Even though I was graduating in 3.5 years, it still
seemed too long. Although it was good to be back home, I really
wanted to head back to La Crosse to continue where I had left off in
summer. Luckily the semester went fast between jobs and study. I
found it very interesting how my friends/classmates took the news
that I was going to seminary. Many did not even understand what
that meant. I was a little worried about what would happen but my
anxiety was for nothing because most thought it was neat and had
many questions about it.
After graduation I moved back to La Crosse to Blessed Sacrament
Parish and had the pleasure of learning from Msgr. Hundt and Fr.
Francis. They showed me what it means to be a good and holy
diocesan priest in today's world. I was there from January till
August 2005. These were great months and I learned a lot. Most
importantly is that since then I am very sure I am in the right
place. I also did a lot of public speaking to teens and youth
around the Diocese with Fr. Hirsch (Vocations Director) and Chris
Stefanick (Diocesan Youth Minister). Very quickly all fears that I
had about not reaching the teens or saying something wrong were gone
and I began to love every retreat and talk I was able to attend.
Talking to teens who are going through the same things I did and
giving them encouragement has been very rewarding for me because it
is one way that I can give back the many blessings I have been
given.
Another highlight was my involvement at the Shrine of our Lady of
Guadalupe in La Crosse. I worked there putting my computer degree
to use, but also was involved in the masses, tours and other events
that I was asked to help at. I was able to meet so many wonderful
people through the shrine and also work on many priestly skills that
I will need for the future, God willing.
Starting August of 2005, I entered Seminary in Mundelein, IL. I
very quickly felt at home and the year went very fast. One of the
highlights was Jail Ministry at Cook County Jail in Chicago. This
was very challenging but helped me develop many skills that I will
need as a priest. This was my first of five years and was dedicated
to Philosophy with the other four to theology and preparation for
ministry. I enjoyed Philosophy but an glad it was only for one
year.
This past summer I was assigned in Wausau, where I assisted at two
parishes, St. Michael's and Resurrection. It was a great experience
and I really learned a lot about the importance of the priest, as
pastor and leader. This assignment really built upon my past
experiences and challenged me in ways that I could not have
imagined. It is very exciting to see the Lord at work.
I am now in 1st Theology, which is the first year of my
masters program in the seminary. In other words, I have three more
years to go. This year got a bit harder as the course work is more
difficult but much more enjoyable. I still have a hard time
believing how fortunate I am to be studying our rich faith in such
detail and even more exciting is that I am just in the introductory
courses right now. I am continuing to build my pastoral skills by
teaching RCIA and as serving as a Fire House Chaplin for the
Mundelein Fire Dept. This is great since is gives me a reason to
get my nose out of the books and to apply what I am learning in the
classroom.
I have many interests including computers, being my undergraduate
degree, model railroading, canoeing, kayaking, and anything church
related. I am also an avid model railroader and enjoy traveling
around the state to different model train shows to exhibit with my
model railroad club. I have even started a club here in seminary
with full approval of the faculty and have found it to be a great
community activity. We meet about once a week and are building a
train layout in the basement of one of the buildings. It has become
very popular on campus especially when families visit.
Looking forward, I have a lot to be excited about. I am in seminary
and am loving every day of it. I cannot believe how far I have
already grown as a person and as a man of faith. I am very happy to
be at this point in my life. After all of the years of asking is
this for me, I finally feel that I have the answer and am where God
wants me to be.
If you know of anyone discerning a vocation to priesthood please
pass this on to them. Also please feel free to contact me as I
would love to chat. I also give many talks at schools and
parishes. If you are interested in having me come and speak please
let me know.